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    Category Archives: planning tips

    {Planning Tips} Choosing Your Wedding Florals: Keep Them in Season

    By Chandra Fredrick | Jul 26
    tips on choosing your wedding florals by oh lovely day
    {original feature here}

    We all have a favorite flower or dream of what kind of flowers we want to have in our wedding, but then we realize those peonies we want are not available for our fall wedding or that dahlias aren’t available in the spring.

    tips on choosing your wedding florals by oh lovely day
    {original feature here}

    If you have your heart set on one particular type of flower, then you need to choose a wedding date when that flower is in season.  Likewise, if you have already picked a date, look for florals that are seasonal to that date.  Sometimes choosing out-of-season florals makes them impossible to get, or very expensive if you do.

    tips on choosing your wedding florals by oh lovely day
    {original feature here}

    Here is a handy little chart from nectar to help you choose flowers that are in season for your wedding date (and if you go to their site you can click on each flower name to get more info on each one!)

    tips for keeping wedding florals in season | chart by nectar via oh lovely day
    Look at all of those options!  There are probably flowers that you never knew about, and that you could fall in love with.  Some of my favorites of the lesser known florals are air plants, astilbe, balsa wood, cabbage roses, craspedia (billy buttons) dahlias, dusty miller, protea, succulents, and there are so many more!  Follow along my floral pinterest boards for lots of floral inspiration: Lovely Florals, Beautiful Bouquets, and Bouts.  Better yet, just follow all of my pins for all types of wedding inspiration!
    tips on choosing your wedding florals by oh lovely day
    {original feature here}
    With a little imagination, you may just end up with the flowers of your dreams that you never knew you loved!  What are your dream wedding florals?

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    {Planning Tips} Top 5 Tips for a Perfect Honeymoon + 15 Honeymoon Must-Haves

    By Chandra Fredrick | Jul 19
    5 Tips for a Perfect Honeymoon (plus 15 must-haves) from Oh Lovely Day

    Well a travel week wouldn’t be complete without a honeymoon post, am I right?  So today I’m giving you my Top 5 Tips to the Perfect Honeymoon.

    {Go somewhere you really want to go}
    Sit down with your significant other and think about the kind of trip you want to take.  Do you just want to lay on a beach the whole time, or do you want to do a lot of sightseeing?  Do you want to visit a far off location, or take a road trip?  My husband and I had already been to Hawaii a few times and always wanted to visit Italy, so we figured out a way to make that happen for our honeymoon.  All that really matters is you are away, somewhere you like, and with each other!

    tips for a perfect honeymoon from Oh Lovely Day

    {Consider a honeymoon registry}
    Sometimes after having a wedding, there isn’t much left in the budget to pay for a honeymoon.  That’s why my husband and I did a honeymoon registry in addition to a traditional registry.  Our guests loved it and really got into buying us something that we could enjoy (dinner, a gondola ride, tickets to a museum, a bottle of wine).  There are great companies out there, like Lovely Vendor Guide member Honeymoon Pixie, who allow you to personalize the registry and get the info out to your guests.  I highly recommend a honeymoon registry and had a terrific experience with ours!

    {Bring lots of clothing options without overpacking}
    We always think we should pack light, and then end up overpacking while somehow never having anything good to wear (is that just me, because this always happens to me!).  So I’ve rounded up some adorable, budget friendly dresses that would be perfect for a warm weather honeymoon.  And one or two great pairs of shoes (think wedges and strappy sandals) would work for every one of these.  So you can pack several dresses but only one pair of shoes to make up for it!

    tips for a perfect honeymoon from Oh Lovely Day | dress options
    {all dresses via modcloth}
    I rounded all of these options up from Modcloth, but other great sources for cute & budget friendly dresses are Asos, Old Navy (I have had great luck with them this season!), Forever 21, Zara, or a J.Crew sale.

    {Bring the necessities}
    Besides clothes (and a few pieces of pretty lingerie) you need to bring the things that are necessities for a great trip.  Here are a few things that I think are must-haves for your honeymoon:

    tips for a perfect honeymoon from Oh Lovely Day | 15 travel must-haves

    1.  Contraception (unless you’re ready to get preggo right away!)

    2.  Sleep aid for long flights:  I popped an ambien and slept for 7 hours on our way to Paris.  It was
         amazing.  But there are over the counter sleep aids that you can try as well.  Obviously talk to your
         doctor first.

    3.  An iPod, or the earphones for your iPhone or iPad, to drown out plane noise.

    4.  If you are a light sleeper like I am, I would also recommend a white noise app for the same device,
         because you know hotels are always noisy…This is the free one I use when we travel.

    5.  If you are going to be staying in one destination, a travel pillow is a huge help on flights.  But if you
         are traveling all over Europe, you won’t want to drag one along.

    6.  A backpack that your husband will carry…so you don’t have to!

    7.  Paper soap:  if you are going on a long trip and don’t want to pack a million pairs of underwear,
         and won’t have access to a laundering service, these are a must!

    8.  A travel luggage scale will keep you from paying huge fees on heavy luggage.  They are small and
         lightweight and super easy to use.

    9.  Downy Wrinkle Release: this will get the packing wrinkles out of your clothes and it comes in a
          travel size.  I’m also a huge fan of the Tide-to-go stain pen!

    10.  Evian Facial Spray: Get a quick refresh while on a long flight without messing your makeup.

    11.  A universal adapter is great to have for international travel, and this one works for all
           destinations.

    12.  This is one I wish I knew about for my honeymoon – the Vinni Wine bag lets you safely transport
           wine, or other glass souvenirs, in your luggage.  I would have filled a suitcase with wine and this
           delicious balsamic vinigrette had I known about this!

    13.  A camera, obviously.  And pair it with….

    14.  My most favorite of the must-haves: The XShot screws into the bottom of
          your camera and has an extender that allows you to take self photos without it being seen.  It is
          GENIUS!  My husband and I used this on our honeymoon and yes, we got funny looks.  But we
          didn’t have to worry about asking (in another language) and trusting someone to take a picture for
          us.  And it folds up small enough to fit in your husband’s cargo shorts-type pocket.  We have so
          many great pictures of the two of us all over Paris and Italy thanks to it.  Here’s one where the
          XShot slipped in a bit (and notice the backpack too!) but I swear out of like 1000 pics we took,
          these are the only two were the XShot showed up.

    honeymoon must-haves | the XShot extender for self photo taking

    15.  The last must-have isn’t actually something that I’ve ever tried, but when I heard of it I thought it
          sounded brilliant and super weird at the same time.  But having been in a undesirable bathroom (or
          lack of) situation before, I think it is worth a try.  It is called the GoGirl (that’s what I said) and it
          basically lets women pee standing up.  I’ll let you check it out to learn the rest.  Can someone tell
          me if they have tried this, or try it out and fill me in?  I’m intrigued and weirded out, but mostly
          intrigued…

    {Unplug, relax, and enjoy!}
    This one is pretty self-explanatory, but unplugging is harder than you think it will be (it is much easier if you are out of the country).  Leave your phone in the hotel room, turn it off, or let your battery die.  Leave your laptop and iPad at home.  We only checked our email a couple times in two weeks, and never used a phone.  It was heaven.

    One last thing, the Knot has a pretty extensive packing list to help you as a checklist when your packing time has come.  You can find it here.

    I hope this helps you in planning, packing, and enjoying your honeymoon!  This post has given me the travel bug, so let me live vicariously through you.  Tell me, where are you going (or where did you go) on your honeymoon?

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    {Planning Tips} Show Me the Money: Who Pays for What?

    By Chandra Fredrick | Jul 12

    Ok, so let me preface this post by saying that these days no one is expected to pay for anything and anyone can pay for anything when it comes to weddings.  That being said, there are things that, traditionally, are assigned to the bride, groom, bride’s family, or groom’s family.  I’ve compiled a list to help you, and maybe to use to facilitate the conversation on who will pay for what in your wedding and what your budget should be.

    tips and info on who pays for what in weddings by oh lovely day
    {via etsy}

    {Bride Pays For}
     Groom’s ring
 ~ Gifts for your bridesmaids
 ~ A wedding gift for your groom
  ~ A gift for your parents
 
  ~ Your own hair & make-up for the wedding
    tips and info on who pays for what in weddings by oh lovely day
    {via style me pretty}

    {Bride’s Family Pays For}
    Save the Dates, Invitations, Programs, Menus, and other paper goods
  ~ Wedding gown & bridal accessories
 
~ Feeding you and your bridesmaids on the wedding day
 ~ Bridesmaid’s bouquets

 ~ All fees associated with the ceremony site rental and decor AND the reception site rental and decor 
~ Florals used for decor ~ Food for the reception

  ~ All Wedding Vendors (photographer, cinematographer, planner, band or DJ, etc.) ~ Wedding cake
  ~ Favors
  ~ Transportation for the you, your wedding party and your family to the wedding
  ~ Gratuities for any vendors ~ Post-wedding brunch, if you have one … So basically, almost everything.  (but again, this is only traditionally and really varies these days)

    tips and info on who pays for what in weddings by oh lovely day
    {via Ruffled}



    {Groom Pays For}
    Engagement and wedding ring for the bride
 ~ Bridal bouquet
 ~ A wedding gift for the bride ~ Gifts for the groomsmen  ~ Boutonnieres for all men in the wedding party or families ~ A gift for his parents
 ~ Cost of the marriage license
  ~ Officiant’s fees
 ~ His attire & accessories
  ~ Ties & accessories for men in the party
 ~ Honeymoon
 ~ Transportation for bride & groom at the end of the night
 ~Accommodations for the wedding night

    tips and info on who pays for what in weddings by oh lovely day
    {jose villa}

    {Groom’s Family Pays For}
    Rehearsal dinner
 ~ Their own wedding attire
  ~ Their own travel expenses
  & accommodations ~  Transportation for groom & groomsmen to the ceremony
  ~ Bar & Beverages at reception

    tips and info on who pays for what in weddings by oh lovely day
    {w. scott chester}

    {Wedding Party Pays For}
    Bachelor & bachelorette parties
 ~ Bridal shower, if hosting
 ~ A wedding gift for the couple (yep, you’re still supposed to get them a gift)
 ~ Their travel expenses
  ~ Attire (dress, shoes, jewelry, suit or tuxedo purchase or rental, and accessories, and for flower girls & ring bearers – their parents pay for their own attire) ~ make-up and hair on wedding day if the opt to have it done, unless the bride pays as their gift


    Again, let me stress that this is not a hard-fast rule.  These decisions will vary and should take into account everyone’s financial abilities.  If you and your husband can bear more of the financial burden you may decide to do that.  If the groom’s parents wish to contribute more than the booze, that is totally fine.  If the bride’s family can’t pay for all of the listed things, they don’t have to.  Remember that with the money comes the understanding of more involvement and decision-making.  Your parents may not expect that, but it is customary that those who pay have more say.


    As I told you in my tips for what to do when you get engaged, you should talk to your significant other about what kind of wedding you want, what you can afford to spend yourselves, and then talk to your families.  My husband and I talked to our own parents seperately and solo, as we were more comfortable doing that.  I think talking to both families at the same time will make the other feel uncomfortable and pressured.  We didn’t even tell each side of our family what the other was contributing, so one side wouldn’t feel bad or less helpful.  


    So what do you think?  Do you agree with the traditional idea of who pays for what?  Did you and your honey do things differently?  Do you have any advice for how to discuss this with your families?  

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